That is why I am writing to you for your advice. We are still together, but I am an unhappy man. We were at the hotel for two nights, but I could not keep my cool. She couldn't explain herself to me, except to say she didn't have to bleed. ![]() ![]() Not even a drop of blood came as a result of our having sex. I knew what to expect from a woman who is a virgin. I know about women because I have had relationships with a few of them. This girl who assured me that she was a virgin, was no virgin at all. On my wedding night, I was so disappointed. She did not have any money to buy me a ring, but we had a small wedding. We set a date for marriage and I bought her a ring. One night after going out, I tried to force her to have sex with me and she got very, very angry, so I backed away. She said I would have to take her word because she is not going to have sex with me before we are married because the Bible is against that. I asked how could I know that she is really a virgin. I told her about my past experience with my children's mother and she said that I wouldn't have that problem with her, because no man has ever seen her nakedness. This young woman told me that she was a virgin and she has never had sex. We fell in love and we started to go out. I joined the church and met a young woman. I was afraid of getting myself into trouble, so I packed up and went to stay with my grandmother. After a lengthy argument between myself and her, I told her to leave. But a few days later, he called me and told me that he had seen my children's mother again and what they did together. I called back the man and I could not get him. But she told him it cannot work because the both of us have children and I have been a good father to the children and a good spouse to her. When I went home, I asked her about this man and she told me that she knows him and he has always been after her. He explained who he was and told me that he was tired of waiting on her because she always promised that she would leave me and come to him. He told me that he was having an affair with her. She never admitted it until one day I got a phone call from a man I did not know. Their mother and I broke up because of her wild ways. The girl is five years old and the boy is two. □ although some of the suggestions on the last post I read were pretty funny lol.I am a regular reader of your column. I have discussed with doc and it cannot happen.ĪLSO, there is absolutely no way *it* is happening while I'm on. □□Īny kind of BC or IUD is not an option for multiple reasons. but covid vaccines changed my cycle timing and my mother (awkward!!) was like um hun. Honestly, it didn't even occur to me that I could get it on the wedding date. ![]() I think I'm mainly sad because he won't be upset (obv, I can't control this) but I hate disappointing him and also I had gotten a really pretty wedding lingerie set. And also, I'm traveling for the wedding, so I'll already be tired and I get super nasty periods. My FH and I are not going to be intimate before the wedding in any way, so obviously having my period at the first time we can be is disappointing. honestly, I'm just a little upset by this even though I'm trying not to be, so I wanted to talk about it. I've read other topics like this on here.
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